Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Kaelia's First Crush

Kaelia had her first taste of romance this past weekend and she developed her first crush for a boy.  She got along very well with Jacob, the 7 year-old boy that came with us to Nottingham Road.  It started off with all four of the kids playing together: Taelyn, Kaelia, Arianna, and Jacob.  But before long, Jacob and Kaelia formed a little bond and liked hanging out together.  One night, they sat together in the car, and Kaelia even leaned over to give him a kiss!  He told him mom that night that he really liked Kaelia because she kisses him.

The next morning, Justin walked in to the room and said hello to the girls.  Kaelia stopped him, though, and said, "Dad, you didn't say hi to Jacob."  He promised her that in the future, he would always be nice to her boyfriends!

Although Kaelia liked playing with Jacob, she still did play with all of the kids throughout the weekend.  I don't think the relationship will be long-lived, but it was pretty cute!

Last Long Weekend

We just came back from our final holiday of the school year - a long weekend to celebrate South Africa's Freedom Day.  We spent our time in a small, mountain town called Nottingham Road with our friends, the Jettners, a new teacher named Kimberly, and her 7 year-old son, Jacob.  Nottingham Road is one of our favorite long weekend destinations, and it's especially nice this time of year in fall.

We stayed in a beautiful horse farm called Bellwood Cottages in a large cottage equipped with 12 beds!  The kids had an entire loft to themselves to sleep and run around and play.  There was also a playground, sand box, play house, and a lake on the property.  During the first morning at Bellwood, Justin took all of the kids out on a boat ride where they spotted lots of monkies the the nearby trees and even some otters swimming in the water.

During our time in Nottingham Road, we also went out to a fondue shop and gorged in chocolate covered fruits, nuts, candies, and other more unusual foods.  We also took the kids to a candle-making shop there they all made rainbow-colored candles and sand art.  Our girls both made princess sand art; then Taelyn made a teddy bear candle, Kaelia's was a butterfly.  They also enjoyed a playground, bouncy castle, and archery shooting just outside the shop.  It was a pretty fun day for the kids.

Another activity for the kids was horse riding in which they took mini lessons that included balancing techniques, maneuvering around objects, trotting, and even jumping over a log laid across the ground.  The kids loved it!

For the adults, we enjoyed some of the restaurants that Nottingham Road has to offer - including their own brewery.  We also went to a winery one afternoon for some local wine and cheese.  At night, we played games, and we were sure to have a fire in the fireplace at all times.

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Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Justin Runs Boston

Justin was just put on the front page of the local newspaper in Ortonville, Michigan dedication to the Boston Marathon.  We are so happy and proud of him!  Here is the article.

April 23, 2014 - When Justin Walker lined up at the starting line of the 2014 Boston Marathon on Monday, it wasn't an entirely new experience. He was about to mark his fifth running of the world's most famous race, and his 61st open marathon overall.

Justin Walker after the Boston 
Marathon 2014
But while he had been here before, this marathon was different from all the others. A year ago, terrorists detonated two bombs near the finish line of the Boston Marathon, killing three people, injuring approximately 264 more, and stopping the race for thousands.

Walker, a 1999 Brandon High School graduate, had not run in a Boston Marathon in more than six years, but when he heard the news of the devastating events of April 15, 2013, from his wife Sarah, also a BHS graduate, he knew where he would be on April 21, 2014.

"I was angry," said Walker of the attacks. "Not surprised, since I always figured large events like New Year's Eve in Times Square and marathons are easy targets (due to) large amounts of people in a confined area. But I hated them for what they did. They took lives. They also took away that moment of accomplishment— that feeling of overcoming all that is tough in the world, and replaced it with fear and doubt... I run to accomplish— to push myself past the limits of my mind, and when I see that robbed from others, I get angry."

Walker, 33, did not change his training to run Boston— he runs 10-12 marathons per year and typically runs between 60-70 miles per week. However, he did have to travel nearly 8,000 miles in order to run 26.2 miles.

He and Sarah reside in Johannesburg, South Africa with their two daughters, Taelyn, 5, and Kaelia, 3. Walker is a middle school counselor at an international school and the family has made South Africa their home for the past four years. Previously, the Walkers lived in China for two years, during which time Justin raced and won the Great Wall Marathon.

As an expatriate, running the Boston Marathon this year was also an opportunity to show loyalty to his native country. He has no Memorial Day or Fourth of July celebration to be part of in South Africa. The closest he gets to showing patriotism is the Parade of Nations in which he and his children dress in red, white, and blue and walk in an annual celebration of all nations.

So on April 17, Walker boarded a plane for the long flight back to the U.S., arriving in Boston on April 18. Sarah and their girls remained in South Africa to celebrate Easter and save the family roughly $10,000. He attended the marathon expo, did a Samuel Adams brewery tour, and walked around the finish line and bombing areas, but mostly he waited for Monday morning and what he had come for— racing the Boston Marathon.

"Boston was amazing this year," Walker said. "Everywhere you went there were banners for the city, and the energy was vibrating through the air. I was feeling proud to be here and ready to commit myself to a day on the road in honor of all that this city and its race stand for. It is America's oldest marathon and technically the world's most continuous marathon and is always a great experience— be it a PR or terrible winds, or blazing heat. Boston is a bucket list race, an experience every time. I just wanted to really give it my all that day. My pre-race Facebook post was: 'Some people are mentally strong. Some people are physically strong. But to run today, you need to be 'Boston Strong.'"

He had no concerns about safety or fear of more bombings, noting he doesn't spend his life worrying about such things.

"Hell, there are enough times where I am lucky to survive a regular run on the roads. Statistically, I am about 1 billion times more likely to die in the car ride to the airport or even on the plane than I am at Boston. At any point in life, a car can hop a curb, debris can fall from the sky, or healthy hearts just stop. Why worry about these things? Live life.

And isn't that the point of terrorism— to disrupt the general flow of those left behind after the attack? They want us to live in fear, to be too scared to go on with our daily lives. That is why I came back to Boston - to prove to them that America will not give up, that we will not cower in fear. The race will go on. We will run again." And he, along with more than 35,000 others, did just that.

On Monday, Walker awakened at 4 a.m., dressed and packed a bag, then rode a bike three miles from the hotel to the buses that take runners to the starting line.

The one-hour bus ride is actually the "cruelest" part of the Boston Marathon, he said. Upon getting off the bus, runners sit for approximately two hours in Athlete's Village, a school. For security reasons, runners could bring only what they wanted to discard, with no bags allowed for clothing. In normal years, the Athlete's Village look like a refugee camp, said Walker, with "a bunch of skinny people laying on cardboard boxes on the ground, wrapped in trash bags, waiting." This year, he said they looked even more homely, with "throw away" clothes. The runners leave the village to walk nearly a mile to the start line, then wait there for 45 minutes.

Finally, he crossed the start line, calm even though with lots of runners at the beginning and narrow roads, the first couple miles were slow. He recalls passing Dick and Rick Hoyt. The father and son duo are famous for racing marathons with Dick pushing his son Rick, who has cerebral palsy, in a wheelchair. Walker also eventually passed Joan Benoit Samuelson, an American and the first women's Olympic marathon champion in 1984.

All along the course, he noted the crowds were amazing, with their energy carrying the runners through. At the 10-mile mark, Walker was on pace for his goal time of 2 hours, 48 minutes. He had not been doing speedwork in training, as his goal race this year is the Comrades Marathon, an ultra marathon of 56.1 miles in South Africa, to be held June 1. He had trained for distance and hills. Still, when he rolled into the "scream tunnel," the halfway point near Wellesley College, he decided he was going to go for his secret desire— a finish time of 2:45, which would be an automatic qualifier for the New York City and London marathons.

"I kept asking myself, 'How deep do you want to dig?'" said Walker. "I pushed from 13-16 miles which left me a bit tired going into the Newton hills. By the time I crested Heartbreak Hill, I was definitely feeling it. The hills themselves are not hard, but after the pounding and the pace, I relented a bit." He tried to push from 21 miles on, thinking if he was behind about a minute, he could make it up, but every time he pushed, he started to "blow out and slow." His stomach soured and he had to decide whether to maintain pace or fall apart.

He ran as hard as he could without pushing to where he would slow.

"It got very hard from 23 to 25 miles," he said. "I was at my limit and had not done any speed work to prepare me for running 6:20 a mile. I held on as best as I could, stumbling to the line. My last 2 miles were more than a minute per mile slower than my overall average! I was absolutely done."

Still, he finished in 2:47:23, a personal record by 3 minutes over a best he had set four years ago when he won a marathon in Canada.

When Walker crossed the finish line, he stumbled and weaved. Marathon volunteers grabbed him and helped him keep moving. He was in more pain than any other marathon he had finished, even ones that he had considered disasters. His stomach was a mess, his legs hurt "a lot." The volunteers kept congratulating him and he joked back that it wasn't a reward.

As if the 26.2 miles he had just finished weren't enough, he had to walk another mile to the subway, then walk again to the hotel and hustle to the airport for the 20-plus hour flight back to South Africa.

"I was dying," Walker said. "(But) the number of people telling me how great it was that I ran today was amazing. Nods, smiles, horn honks, cheers, thumbs up from every person from the race end til I boarded the plane. Boston lives for this race and it is special."

Walker's stay in Boston was brief, but unforgettable. Soon, he and his family will be on the move again. In August, they plan to move to Doha, Qatar in the Middle East, for new life and job opportunities. Walker will be a student services coordinator there. He notes that he and Sarah will probably never return to the U.S. to work, as they are both in the education field, one that is difficult to be in right now in this country.

"We live a good life and see the world," he said. "Our jobs here are different than they would be in the U.S. We get to work closer with children and with more current practices. We are fortunate enough to be able to travel the world, show our children different cultures, and save for the future. This is the life we have chosen and it will be one we stick with for the foreseeable future."

In Qatar, Walker said he will get back to playing ice hockey and perhaps training for his ultimate goal— climbing Mt. Everest. But no matter where he goes, Boston will always have a place in his heart.

"This was the most meaningful of all my Bostons and all my marathons," he said. "I really wanted to go there and be a part of the revitalization and prove that we can all do great things when tested."

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Mommy-Daughter Holiday for Easter

Kaelia at Hollybrooke Farms
Taely at Hollybrooke Farms
Justin flew out to Boston to run the Boston Marathon this weekend, so the girls, Meeka, and I had a lovely mommy-daughter holiday in Hartebeespoort - a touristy lake/dam just an hour away from Joburg.  We stayed at Hollybrooke Farms where we had a very nice chalet with a small yard and trails that led to a nearby river and waterfall.  It was beautiful!  On the first day, the girls even attempted to cross the river over a pile of rocks.  To no surprise, Taelyn ended up falling in and doing a little swimming!

On our way to Hollybrooke Farms, we stopped at the Snake and Animal Park where the girls and I saw lots of snakes, monkies, lions, tigers, and birds.  We even got to watch a snake and seal show in the center arena of the park.  The girls ended up liking the chameleon the best, though, because it looked like Pascal from Tangled.

Saturday was a fun-filled day that started with riding ATV's through the trails at Hollybrooke Farms.  Kaelia started on and ATV with me while Taelyn rode with a guide.  Then we switched halfway through.  Both girls loved the ride; Kaelia especially liked the cows that we passed, and Taelyn liked when we went fast on the flat roads!  Once we got back on to the driveway of the farm, both girls rode with me - Kaelia in the front and Taelyn in the back so that Kaelia could "drive" us home.  She loved it.  Later on that day, we all decorated Easter eggs and got ready for the Easter bunny to come.  Both girls made the Easter bunny a picture, placed their eggs in their baskets, and went to bed excited to see what would happen the next morning.

Selfie of the Easter Bunny
Looking to see if the Easter Bunny 
brought eggs.
Easter morning was interesting without Justin around.  I had to get outside early in the morning to hide the Easter eggs because no one was there to distract the girls.  So I woke up at 5:30 am, hoping that the girls would not get up too early.  Then I had to climb out of my window because the girls' beds were in the living room, right in front of the only door!  On my way back in the window, I suddenly heard, "Mommy, what are you doing?" and found Taelyn staring at me, halfway out the window.  Luckily, she thought I was looking for the Easter bunny and got so excited about finding her basket and eggs, that she didn't investigate the matter further.  When Kaelia woke up, they both searched for their baskets in the chalet.  They both got some coloring supplies and activities, books, and chocolate.  Then we all ventured outside, looking for eggs.  Kaelia went straight to all of the easy ones that were in plain view while Taelyn skipped all of those, hoping to find the ones in more difficult places.  In the end, they shared all of their findings and had a great little hunt.  We ended the morning with some Easter pancakes and prepared for the day.

Next, the girls rode ponies at the farm where they worked on their balance.  Then we headed out to the Aerial Cableway in Hartesbeespoort to take a cable car up the mountainside.  At the top, there was a great playground, bouncy castle, pizza shop, and bar - perfect for all of us to enjoy, and the perfect way to spend Easter!

On our final day of the holiday, the girls and I drove him and made a quick stop for a game of mini golf.  We had such a wonderful time together, and it was nice to get away with all the girls in the family!

 
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Friday, April 11, 2014

Star Performers

The girls have been putting together lots of little shows, dances, and performances for us lately.  Here are a couple of the latest ones.


Monday, April 7, 2014

Medieval Banquet

This past weekend, Justin and I had a little adult night out at Greensleeves Medieval Banquet, just outside of Johannesburg.  At Greensleeves, we all got dressed up in Medieval costumes and attended a dinner that simulated an upper class medieval banquet.  We had a great time!  Justin and I even stayed overnight so we didn't have to hurry home late at night.

The banquet was pretty similar to our medieval dinner in Ireland, although the Irish experience was probably a little less stereotypical.  Nonetheless, we had a ye good olde tyme, and the costumes certainly added to the experience!

Sunday, April 6, 2014

Family Fun Day

Yesterday was our school's annual Family Fun Day - a fundraising event that mimics closely to a carnival or fair in the States.  We always have a wonderful time when we go, and this year was no exception.  Taelyn, as usual, loved the various rides and slides, while Kaelia spent most of her time on the slip-n-slide and the bouncy castles.

This year, Taelyn was finally old enough to go on the rocket - a blow up rocket that brings kids straight up, and then they drop straight down.  It was lots of fun.  She was really bummed, however, that she wasn't tall enough to go on the high ropes zip-line or huge gerbil ball down an even larger slide.



Just before lunch time, the girls also got to partake in some activities just for younger kids.  There was a fun run where the kids had to race one another while trying to escape water balloons.  They also played a game where they had to eat a chocolate off of a string without using their hands.  They topped of the activities with face painting, nail painting, and henna tattoos.


Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Recent Conversations

The girls have said some funny things lately, so I thought I'd record them down.  Enjoy!

Taelyn Quotes

"Momma, I know that we have two baby showers to go to on Saturday, but is there any way we can talk and problem solve about how I can still go to Joshua's birthday that day?"

Taelyn: Can I have some of that drink?
Sarah: No, it's adult tea (meaning it has caffeine)
Taelyn: Oh, so it tastes like beer?

"My armpits are SOOO sweaty right now!"

Taelyn singing "Would you Like to Build a Snowman" from Frozen:

Kaelia Quotes

Justin drove Kaelia around town and they rolled past the casino where there happened to be many people outside, and in South Africa, they happen to be black more often than not.
Kaelia: I like the black people.
Justin: Any black people in particular, honey?
Kaelia: The black people from Sleeping Beauty on Ice (which we saw 5 months ago at the casino and had actors dressed all in black). They are my favorite.

Kaelia had to take some medicine that she didn't like, and before she would take it, she said:
"Daddy, will you hold my chin?  Hold my chin and suck it down my throat."

Our 3 year-old was adamant about this as it started to storm outside.
"Mom, Dad, hurry!  The windows are open, and the house is going to get wet!"
(A little while later, Kaelia found a window still opened just a crack)
"Mom, I told you about this!  I told you to close the windows!"

Kaelia singing "Let it Go" from Frozen: